The gift of love is like a precious plant. You can’t just accept it and then leave it in the cupboard to take care of itself. You’ve got to keep watering it. You’ve got to really look after it and nurture it.

These wise words from John Lennon sit well during this ‘Month of Love’ as couples, friends and families (and retailers) embrace everything starry-eyed and romantic.

Charnel Hattingh, Fidelity ADT’s Group Head of Marketing and Communications, adapts Lennon’s words to relate to personal safety and security, saying peace of mind that you and your loved ones are safe and secure is also a gift – that can only keep giving if it’s looked after.

“By being vigilant we are keeping each other safe, by installing proper home security solutions, such as surveillance cameras, fire alarm systems and 24/7 security monitoring, we show we care and by making good safety habits part of our routine, we demonstrate how precious our loved ones are to us.

“Security is a topic the whole family must be involved in; neighbours too. You must work as a team to keep your home and neighbourhood safe. This type of active citizenry is very evident in many suburbs today, with residents taking charge of cleaning up and communicating crime trends on WhatsApp groups.

“It’s wonderful to see. Fidelity ADT 100% supports the fact that a cleaner city is a safer city. By being involved in these initiatives and taking security seriously, you also show a love for your community.”

Hattingh also brings the topic of personal safety into sharp focus for all the love birds planning an unforgettable Valentine’s Day (February 14), whether at home or elsewhere.

Here are some common-sense safety tips:

• As alluring as they are, candles are naked flames. Make sure they are spaced out on stable surfaces clear of curtains, beds and places where they are likely to be bumped over. Never leave candles unattended and put them out before you go to sleep.
• Bubbles and other alcoholic drinks will more than likely be served, but keep an eye on your consumption. A dream date can rapidly turn into a nightmare through alcohol. You could fall, start an argument or leave yourself vulnerable on a journey home. Don’t drink and drive after any amount of alcohol consumption.
• Don’t share your plans on social media, announcing you’re going out. You never know who may take this opportunity to break into your house.
• If you’re going to a restaurant, book ahead and plan safe routes/means of transport there and back to prevent unnecessary confusion. Know exactly what your plans are and stick to them to stay safe.
• If it’s an all-girl Valentine’s Day date, travel as a group, stay together at all times and leave and get home together. A few simple ground rules, despite the fact you’re all adults, can keep everyone safe.

“Celebrate the Month of Love and Valentine’s Day safely by being smart and balancing indulgence with restraint.

“You want these memories to last for the right reasons, so love yourself, your partner, friends and family enough to have that safety chat, check the doors, arm the alarm and ask your neighbour to keep an eye on things while you’re out.

“Have a happy and safe Valentine’s Day!” Hattingh concludes.